乱吹垮垮

新家地址如上,为什么搬呢,因为我讨厌这里了,谢谢.虽然没人看

 

前天,电影台放:护戒使者

我开始了我多年来第一次的年终大扫除,前两年都是回家过年,而且我回去的时候他们几乎都做完了.我自己的家搬进来第3年,从来没做过.虽然以前我就知道阿姨几乎都是摆设,但是真正收拾起来才知道,她平时的工作有多写意.我开始收拾我的鞋柜,扔了一堆至少3年以上的.收拾卧室,到处擦.客厅,工作台,杂务柜,茶几......陈杰知道我要做扫除,就早早的梭边边了,晚上9点过回来,被喝令擦了一遍他的玩具们.

昨天,电影台放:双塔奇兵

我看得很激动,觉得既然人类都有勇气战胜魔族,那我也该收复被油烟占领的厨房了......我深入每个盲荒角落,清扫出堆积的各式垃圾,曾经有一段时间,我越扫越勇,拿着钢丝球擦遍每个油印,直到夜里1点,我败回客厅,一边啃点东西,一边打算明天继续.

今天,电影台下午3点过放的是王者归来

我终于完成了年终大扫除.晚上8点过,看这么美好的厨房,我欢快的在里面做起了3天来第一顿饭,{前两天都是吃水饺和面}听到陈说"啊,好象刚搬进来一样,我的心就象终于把魔戒丢进烈焰山的岩浆中的荷比特人一样.

学英语的时候学到这个文章,终于明白了原来男女区别在这里,以后知道怎么跟cj吵架拉.

 

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

 

"I can't talk to Paul," says his wife Jill. "Sometimes it feels like he's from another planet." Paul says, "I try to listen to Jill and to help her with her problems. Why does she tell me her problems if she doesn't want my advice?" What's going on? Why do Paul and Jill have such a difficult time communicating with each other? Is it because Paul is a man and Jill is a woman? Are men and women really from different planets?

In his book, Mars and Venus Together Forever, Dr. John Gray explores how men and women communicate and solve problems differently. He explains that when a woman has a problem, it helps for her to talk about it with an understanding listener. She wants to share her feeling with a supportive person. Talking about her problem helps her "feeling side" connect to her "thinking side" and she is then ready to consider solutions. She isn't necessarily looking for advice. Her male partner may not understand this. He may feel that she is asking for help, and that it is his job to solve her problem. He may offer his advice, when she just wants him to listen.

Men commonly handle problem solving differently. If a man has a problem, he will usually want to become active. For example, he might want to play tennis, go for a run, or even just walk back and forth. This activity helps him feel like he is doing something while he figures out a solution to his problem. A man will usually act more quickly than a woman to solve a problem, but he needs to think about his feelings before he can talk about them. He needs time to be by himself. After he analyzes his feelings, and what he can do about his problem, he will often decide to talk about it. But not before.

Dr. Gray explains that men's and women's brains are organized differently. A woman has billions of neuroconnectors that connect her feelings to speech. In Dr. Gray's words, it is as if she has a superhighway connecting her feeling center with her talking center. But when a man tries to put his feelings into words, it is necessary for him to think first about what he wants to say. There are no freeways in his brain connecting his feelings with words. His feelings are more connected to action. He goes from feeling to thinking to talking. A woman is more likely to feel, think, and talk all at the same time. A man wants the problem-solving action to come before the talking. A woman wants to talk first, and then solve the problem. Understanding this basic difference might prevent arguments, hurt feelings, and misunderstandings. It is something to think about the next time you think you are dealing with someone from another planet! 

现在发现川菜真是越长越像了,要改进拉

早上8点50,被房东电话打起来,告知我门院子第一家失火,让大家去看看，还想翻身继续睡,于是电话助手小刘,让他去看个热闹就行了,小刘关机.我就电了郭鸿蔚,他居然说我们还是自己去吧,我也就只能不洗脸就出门了.半路上,郭和cj一幸一灾,快到时,锅接到邻居电话,说你们一排前两家的门被我公安干警给砸开了,为了救火,这时,三个人的心开始发凉了.到了黑桥,看见居然还来了一辆救火车,再走20米,一看还有两辆,跟真的一样.一拐进了院子,又居然出了两辆,我们的心凉完了...

我们院第一家已经烧穿了屋顶,墙也裂了,里面黑洞洞一片,事主大哥成了黑人,站在那镇静的说,7年的画全没了.因为风,火向后面一个院蔓延,背后的两家受了牵连,屋子里水洗了一遍,一画家说,画了2个月的2张画没救了.我们几个很运气,屋子里只有浓烟.

火种是电热毯,主人外出吃早饭时燃了被子,很快失去控制,119来得不算快,郊区嘛.房东说明一家一个灭火器的发,放火是正经事啊.